Nick Ascroft’s Poignant New Collection Explores Life and Death

The latest poetry collection by New Zealand poet Nick Ascroft, titled It’s What He Would Have Wanted, offers a humorous yet profound exploration of mortality and the human experience. Released by Te Herenga Waka University Press, this compilation is already being hailed as one of the most impressive poetry books of 2025.

Ascroft’s work stands out for its blend of lightheartedness and dark themes. The poem “It’s What He Would’ve Wanted” serves as a reflection on death, filled with witty remarks and sharp observations. The poet expresses a desire for minimal fuss upon his passing, suggesting a preference for a simple burial and even humorously contemplating the fate of a casserole dish. His writing captures the balance between the absurdity of life and the inevitability of death, making readers both laugh and reflect.

Humor in Mortality

Through lines that oscillate between the playful and the poignant, Ascroft tackles the topic of death with an irreverent twist. He requests that those left behind not indulge in grand gestures but rather embrace the absurdity of the situation. For instance, he mentions, “When I die do not cremate me in a flame-retardant bodysuit ‘as a joke’,” showcasing his knack for humor even in serious matters.

The poem highlights the complexities of relationships and the feelings that arise in the face of loss. Ascroft challenges the reader to consider how they would navigate grief, urging friends and family to remember the vibrant self he once was rather than the frailty that may accompany aging. “If you never had a chance to say goodbye, say it now,” he advises, underscoring the importance of open communication and connection.

A Unique Legacy

Ascroft’s intention for his work to be read at his own funeral adds another layer of depth to the collection. He aims to turn the traditional expectations of mourning on their head, suggesting instead that laughter and joy should accompany his farewell. The poet writes, “When I die I would like this poem read out at my funeral because I think it would be funny, or funny at first and then misjudged.” This request encapsulates his distinctive approach to life and death—a celebration rather than a somber occasion.

The collection, priced at $30, is already available in bookstores across New Zealand and is expected to gain international attention. Ascroft’s ability to blend humor with reflective insight positions him as a significant voice in contemporary poetry. Readers may find themselves not only entertained but also encouraged to confront their own perspectives on mortality.

In a world often overshadowed by the seriousness of life, It’s What He Would Have Wanted invites readers to embrace the laughter and absurdity that accompany our existence, ultimately encouraging a more open dialogue about life, death, and everything in between.